Bobo roaming

Musings on a middle class midlife meltdown

  • Two years ago, on the 14 July 2024, England lost the UEFA Euros final against Spain, their two goals a goal better than England’s one. Gary Lineker closed the broadcast; staring down the camera lens and into our living room, like millions of living rooms, pubs, and bedrooms across the country; intoned that ‘A nation mourns’. That morning, my mum, having told my dad to not be so ‘stupid. Of course, I don’t need a f’ing wheelchair’ collapsed as she walked up to the entrance reception of Darenth Valley Hospital.…

  • Home, where my music’s playing Home, where my love lies waiting Silently for me Two hundred odd days, seven or so months, four England Test defeats, and many more cricket grounds later, I have ventured back to the Western hemisphere for a wee while. Maybe longer. Maybe less. Suppose it depends on how long a ‘wee while’ is. We shall have to see how the back home version of the midlife crisis rolls on. Tattoos, motorcycle lessons, and a non-ironic skateboard incoming. Those of you with fears/hopes that my eternal…

  • You’ve been a long way away. Thank you for coming back to me. For the past fortnight, or so, I have been back on the beautiful island of Sri Lanka. This place has been a revelation. Truth told, I had been largely indifferent about factoring the country into my travel plans and I am very glad of being talked into visiting by OH. This second visit in as many months has been very different to the first- less of the here, there and everywhere adventures; less touristy visits; quieter; and…